10 Things Every Nigerian Guy Hates In A Relationship

Ladies, as you know what you want and do not want in a relationship, you should also know what your man wants and do not want in a relationship.
You not knowing or better put as you not being conscious of some clear elements in a relationship often lead to sudden breakup; my people do put it as to serve you breakfast.

For you not to eat breakfast even though everyone must eat breakfast, you must take note of some things.

These ten tips will guard you and open your eyes to some things that can break or maim your relationship:


10. SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME ON PHONE

Instagram babe, have you forgotten that as you give your phone too much attention, your zaddy also needs the same amount of attention and care?

Babe, must you spend too much time on your phone, ignoring your man and depriving him of absolute attention. More so, it is very disrespectful to be on your phone whenever you two are together. Do that when he is not with you!


9. HIDING YOUR EMOTION

 

You, why should you hide your feelings from him? In a relationship, babe you have to be transparent. Let him be able to see through you, do not be emotionally distant. You hiding your real feeling can outrightly turn your man off. Let him know your feelings and fix things up rather than keep to yourself.


8. BEING OVERLY DEPENDENT

 

Guys do not like when a lady is over-dependent on them. You as a lady must be able to think and arrive at your own decision, try out new things and let him know that his babe is capable.


7. NOT BEING DOGGED

 

My lady, be strong-willed and do not just take anything he throws at you. Know want you want and go for it. Guys do not like pushovers.


6. BEING IN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX.

Guys hate competition and they tend to get jealous when you are still in touch with your ex. Why not forget your ex and put him in your past? Why bring the old to the new? Cut all ties with your ex and give your heart fully to your present man.


5. ALWAYS NAGGING

It is good to complain cutely, but it is not good to complain too much. You constantly complaining about your friend, work, past relationship and some other unnecessary things that can piss him off and make him serve you breakfast.


4. BEING TOO NEEDY

 

Good guys love to spoil their girl with gifts and money, but they hate when their babe is so needy and materialistic. Don’t solely depend on him for money; you can also take him out shopping and spoil him with love. He is your lover and not your ATM.


3. BEING BOSSY

No matter how you crave to be in control or to have the upper hand, don’t try to be bossy around your guy. A guy loves to be in control and hates to be told what to do. He is not your puppy, but your man. So, be guided!


2. COMPARING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER RELATIONSHIPS

Guys do not like to hear a woman comparing their relationship with other people’s relationships. Here are some comparisons that infuriate guys.
Bola and her man always go on a trip on weekends, why don’t we go. All my friend’s boyfriends have a private jet, why don’t you get yours?


1. NOT KEEPING IT SEXY

 

 

This does not refer to wearing sexy lingerie in the bedroom or having sex. My point is to do things that are sexy. Sexy things like cooking together, washing together, playing cards together, losing your hair, him plaiting your hair and checking out your outfit.


Follow my tips to avoid breakfast.

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